Anyone who has ever suffered infertility knows too well the roller coaster of emotions they go through.
One minute you are full of hope and happy the next minute you see a pregnant woman and everything changes.
I am not certain any other illness do this to anyone, maybe it does. For me having experience infertility as well as Other illnesses. I find that I am most affected by infertility than any other illness.
Why is this so? Maybe because having a child is a build in desire. A desire to birth, to want to procreate seems to trump any other desire.
Life has season, our seasons of infertility will come and go.
Weather we will be gifted with a child in the way we desire tile will tell.
But whatever the path we take to a new season, we must keep our identity in view.
We are not define by infertility, do not make it your identity, Do not class yourself as an infertile woman/man.
You are gifted with abilities and potentials, crafted in the image of the maker of the universe.
Delicately and wonderfully made,
Living in the abundance of His grace,
Wrapped in His beauty,
Fashioned with the best of His storehouse.
Here are ways to help you stay focus on who you are in Christ.
Stay connected to God, being connected to God and the word will help you grasp who you are in Christ.The enemies of our souls knows this and wants us to only keep in focus the lies about who we are. if you believe you are worthless unable to parent a child, you will be unable to lay hold on the promises of God’s word concerning children. Staying connected to the word about who you are
Speak positively about your situation, speak life to your body, claim the promises available to you as you stay connected, you will begin to have a new reality.
The battle is ongoing to remind yourself of who you are, set reminders throughout the day by immersing your love in God’s truth. Put memory verses in your car, in your purse. Set reminders on your phone with encouraging quotes to remind you of your identity..
Avoid events or issues that might draw you away from God! Draw near to Him throughout the day. By doing this you will be able to resist the temptation to give in to your emotions when those ugly thoughts about your infertility rears their head, you can chop it off with the word of God.
The battle is not over until we win. We will win because the word says so. So set your mind free from fear and live in the hope of coming into Hos promises for your life.